previously if the cross reference did not exist at exactly the provided offset we'd immediately throw, now we assume we can read a few more tokens to find the xref table or stream start. this won't work in the case where the provided offset is past the start of the table or nowhere near the table but in those cases there's not much we can do. there's some more work to do to provide a fallback xref parser which finds the xref tables and streams using a brute-force scan of the whole document.
